Questions you should ask a man before dating him
Question to ask yourself before committing: Do we share the same views on monogamy, marriage and children?
The big-ticket items, like family, marriage, and views on monogamy are conversation-topic musts before leaping into serious commitment.
What things are the most important to him, from a woman? – Who are they, what are they about, how does the family function, what kinds of relationships are there etc…? Some believe it’s better to date and stay in a long term relationship without marriage, because they believe things are fine as they are. Some men, on the other hand only believe in short term relationships. – It is good to know what a partner’s sexual history was, for obvious safety reasons (STD’s); but also to understand how your partner views sexuality and intimacy to begin with. For instance, some men think that a woman should not work, is that something he believes should be your role? Finances support a person’s way of life, so you should be aware on a general level of his financial standing; because financial problems and even success can bear a lot of stress or problems for a man. What kinds of fantasies or desires does he have in that area?
– We are coming to an era where people are evenly drawn between marriages and simply dating. – Find out what purpose he believes you would fulfill in a relationship with him. – Regardless of whether or not you are financially independent, you should know this. – When does he think it is alright to initiate intimacy?
Question #4.) What is your favorite sport to watch/play?
Why It’s A Good/Cute Question: A lot of guys absolutely talking about sports and this will get conversation flowing.But that’s because she never clarified or asked, so he thinks everything is fine and that she is happy, because she isn’t saying otherwise; and goes after his own desires. However, it is important to find out if it does matter to your partner, and where they stand on it, and if they can accept you into their life with the beliefs they have.